How to Enjoy Alone Time

Now that Valentine’s Day has come and gone, you may be back to ignoring your significant other in favor of psetting in Lamont or embracing your self-partneredness in true Emma Watson fashion. Whatever the case may be, we could all use a little alone time doing things by and for ourselves. So here are some ways you can introduce some more self-love into your day-to-day life:

Netflix and Chill

Who needs a boo when you have Netflix and Ben and Jerry’s pint-sized ice cream from The Garage? Set aside some time at night to put on your coziest pajamas, grab your favorite snack, and rewatch an episode or two of your favorite show. This is a fool-proof way to recharge, and requires no one but yourself! Bonus points if you get your laundry done while watching; washing that month-old stain out of your favorite sweatshirt is self-love, too.

Gym Session

Hitting the gym is always a great way to destress and work on the New Year’s resolutions you almost forgot about. Plug in those earbuds to easily tune out everyone else while you’re sweating it out on the elliptical. Playing one of your favorite playlists or podcasts while exercising will remind you that you really are the only company you need at the gym (especially because trying to maintain a conversation when you’re already short of breath can be such a pain).

Go for a Stroll

If the intense energy at the gym isn’t really your style, go for a leisurely walk by the Charles or through Cambridge Common instead. Let’s be honest, you have to leave Lamont at some point and get some fresh air, so why not schedule it into your gcal and make it a real commitment? Consider it a time to reflect, breathe, and maybe snap some cute pics for Instagram if you happen to catch yourself outside during golden hour.

Take a Trip to the Art Museums

If you haven’t visited the Harvard Art Museums yet, consider it a top priority on your to-do list. Not only is it a beautiful space with tons of incredible artwork, but it also has plenty of great nooks and crannies optimal for relaxing and entering a meditative headspace. Bring a book or sketchpad if you really want to embrace the pensive atmosphere and get your creative juices flowing.

Explore the City

If you want to escape the bubble, hop on the T and spend the day exploring Boston. Even if it’s for just a few hours, wandering through the North End or Back Bay areas will leave you refreshed. Some top spots to hit are the Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum, Boston Public Library, Museum of Fine Arts, and Faneuil Hall. With all the picturesque streets, trendy cafes, and beautiful artwork to discover — plus free access to so many places with your HUID — you’ll soon discover that all you need for a day in the city is you, a camera, and some money to spare. Consider it a date for one, and feel free to splurge!

While it’s nice to spend time bonding with others, sometimes you need to take a step back and put the focus back on you. Take these ideas and rediscover the different ways you can show yourself that, in the end, you can be your own best company.